I still have PTSD from my former firm due to how I was mistreated and the racism I experienced there. I'm at a better firm and am safe now. But, I still get the occasional nightmare or thought or flashback to my former firm. Therapy has been helping a bit. I just wish I could move on and forget about my former firm, but easier said than done.

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I am so sorry you experienced this. And so glad you are safe now.

I try to use past negative experiences like this to push to find a better career path in the future. There has to be a better way.

Racism is real in our industry, and something needs to be done about it.

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In addition to therapy, which I am glad is helping some, please also consider coaching which can help support pathways forward. Wishing you all the best.

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