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Yes, I would be upset
How well does he know her and can he introduce me
Possibly he is helping her by supporting her OF.
More likely he’s always had an unrequited thing for her and this is his way of dealing with it.
You need to decide if this is a deal breaker or not. It might not bother some people but if it bothers you, you need to determine why and what you need to resolve it.
Why did he delete his account only after you asked him about it? If it’s enough of an issue to delete the account and he knew that, why was he doing it in the first place.
Yea this is a no.
Even if it wasn’t a lifelong friend, guys that pay for that are stupid.
Is it any good or is she just run of the mill
What’s her name? I’d like to check her out
I wouldn’t be super PO’d or call it a deal breaker or anything like that, but I would just be like hey, while porn is nbd, since this is someone you know in real life this is kind of weird getting a bit too close to home per se.
Yes I’d be upset, but also depends with more context. If he still talks to her occasionally then I’d be more PO’d than if he didn’t talk to her at all and only was “friends” through social media. My old roommate went through a similar situation and her boyfriend at the time is now with that girl he swore he’d never be with. But it doesn’t surprise me because he would snapchat her a lot, hangout with mutual friends, etc. and you could kinda tell that if he could be with her he would. If your boyfriend doesn’t speak to this “friend” at all then I wouldn’t care as much, especially since he removed her from everything. But if he does then I’d have to re-evaluate.
Paying for OnlyFans is a [rhymes with limp] move. Make sure you fully explain why you feel the way you do, and make sure he understands. It would also be helpful for him to explain his thought process too.
But he deleted his OF and unfollowed her. Seems like a reasonable response If he does renege, that’s when I’d be really pissed. Be upset, but also be willing to give benefit of of the doubt.
This may require further, context and uhh…evaluation. I wouldn’t ask or expect you to share a link, but if you were to DM one, well that’d be just fine.
It is no big deal. I don't understand why women have such an issue with it. It's a person on a screen. How can women be so insecure to feel threatened by this?