I'm a weirdo and am starting a new job after an old one with minimum human contact any tips for reentering society?

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Don't be afraid to say hello to people. A lot of the time, building connections just comes from simple interactions that take minimal effort.

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Be patient with yourself. You’ll get more comfortable as you go. I think after Covid we’re all kind of in this stage!

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I'm looking for good opportunity,

I am having total experience of 9.1 years and 8 years in the Treasury. I am having 10LPA..

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