In a new job and my manager saw through my impostor syndrome. He said it out loud that I need to work on my confidence and overcome my insecurity.
I constantly feel like I’m surrounded by people smarter than me and I doubt myself a lot. I’m scared everyone sees through my impostor syndrome and feel horrible about myself.

Is it unreasonable for me to ask for a raise with a little year and half of workin at my agency? If so, how much should I ask for?

Ortho sales reps look like they could be the next contestants on the Bachelor. 💀💀

In Maui for a few days in August. Any recommendations on activities/dining/accommodation? Re: accomodation- I'd rather not do a resort - more local b&b setting. Thanks!

Please suggest which company is best to join Barclays or Pwc for cloud engineer role.

Looking for some advice on how to branch off into a job in tech. I’m a Mechanical engineer interested in working in a big tech company. I have some programming experience but excel mostly in mechanical and product design as well as 3D CAD. Was wondering if any other mechanical engineers have managed to make the shift from a traditional mech job to a tech job and if you could give me advice on the best path that worked for you. Thanks!

Attractive, 6 foot 2 muscular male available for Miami corporate office holiday parties.
I will be your arm candy, dressed to impress and shower you with attention and compliments in front of your coworkers to make those spiteful office Karens you hate feel envious of you for the low rate of $245/ hour.
Free: I will engage in meaningless, polite office small talk with your coworkers I will never see again. DMs are open.

Does UBS provide laptop?
I am hearing from HR that laptops are not issued. If that is the case how does WFH happen and how does flexibility work?
Any inputs would be really helpful
Joining next week.

NY family lawyers- should a prenup address all points in the context of legal separation AND divorce? Or just divorce? Drafting a prenup and wondering what the standard is.

Does TCS provides cab or bus facility in Pune / Mumbai?If yes what are the charges.

I’m expanding my business and I need help. I’m looking to work with 3-5 qualified people to help families increase their financial literacy and elevate them to a better financial situation. Full time and part time positions available. Must pass a background check. Paid 2 times per week. Qualifications: 28-45 in age, People skills, Moral and Ethical Principles, Competitive, Drive, Desire and Ambition. Hiring interviews will be conducted over zoom.

Hi guys , can someone please suggest how appraisal cycles work in SAP.. e.g in cake i joing in june in Gurgaon office then what will be my next appraisal time? And how much can we expect if current position is T2-3

Any single female from Kolkata ?

Slightly off topic, call it the “social” aspect of bschool; I’m a 24M (early grad), if I matriculate at 25 is that too early to really enjoy it? All the school stats average around 28 y/o and I’m not sure how people especially women of that age look at single 25 year old guys not looking for any serious relationships...

I just got an offer from PwC’s Asset Wealth Management Tax Team. Is it as bad as everyone is making it out to be? Would PwC Private or ITS be better if I want to start my own firm one day?

Hi guys,
Compensation plan is not available in allsec and we have to submit the compensation before 17th right
What could be the reason ?

Any CPAs or EAs with trust and estate experience looking for a new position? My team is hiring at pretty much every level remote or in office.

Anyone do woodworking as a side hustle? I already do some woodworking. I'm looking for ideas that will sell but don't want anything too large. Feel like corn hole is over supplied now.

My mom is going through a very bad situation with her previous employer who is not paying her her correct retirement benefits after screwing up their paperwork. She worked for a school district for about 15 years. She has a case but she is afraid it’s not high value enough to attract the attention of the attorney. School district is now ghosting her. If anyone has advice or interest, please let me know, thanks so much

When I was little, I used to lie in bed looking at the ceiling and I would get this overwhelming feeling that the future was meaningless. I felt this pressure around me and an empty feeling inside like the one you get when going down on a rollercoaster. I used to cry myself to sleep back then. Haven't felt like that for a couple of years now.

Been in bed with full blown panic attack all day 🙁 Struggling to even breath

What's causing me so much stress about work? How can I slow my heart down? Sunday PM is a nightmare walking into the week.

Please help!

Can’t wait for my mental health to decline in this coming year and probably the next decade tbh. Parents want me to save money for a house, wants me to move back in with them. Originally wanted to only spend $500k max on a house with $100k down payment but now they want a $750k house. I’m going to be house poor for the next decade and I don’t think I’m going to get married or have kids bc of this.

Anyone worried about SSRIs and job performance?

I am gaslit and discouraged for “rushing” at work, while in fact, I helped catch deadlines (not always of course, bc it also depends on engineers). My efficiency seems to make my direct manager & senior uncomfortable…I feel depressed & sometimes even doubt whether it’s MY problem to work hard and respect my responsibilities… Why is the world so fucked up?

sometimes i want to disappear

I started taking Wellbutrin last week. I feel restless and low energy last few days. Also, feel bit dizzy sometime after the medication. Usually how many days will it take for the medication to work?

I hate my current job (no longer at BCG). Have been interviewing but no offers except for current one, which I was originally relatively excited about until I heard the numbers. Worse than my current role at this toxic company. I don’t know what’s wrong with me, but I’m feeling very depressed, hopeless, and worthless. I don’t want to stay here but I also don’t want to take a step back. I feel like either is just more misery and that my life is falling apart.I just want to end it all.

need vent - I'm having real anxiety, my mom/boss owns the family law firm that she built from the ground up, older sister helped (literally runs the office, payroll, and paralegal). My sister has been out for health reasons (at one point we thought cancer).
Our last paralegal was acting petty because she hasn't gotten raise, and mom hasn't given her raise because she acts petty and doesn't do what she's told all the time. Today she quit. I'm afraid my mom has unrealistic expectations

Anxious for my brother who lives in Downtown Atlanta and has to go into work tonight. Really want him to be safe amidst the riots. Please please be safe 😭

Hope everyone in PwC is staying strong after the results were communicated for year end CRT. Remember this job is not the only thing that defines you and there is more to life more than trying for the elusive tier 1. Just wanted to throw this line for people struggling.

How do psy/therapist sessions work? Hesitant about seeing one and I can't really pinpoint why. Also nervous about opening up and what I might be diagnosed with. Can anyone provide insight from exper?

Have a job interview for a role I’m excited about tomorrow but I’m so depressed and tired I can’t even muster up the energy to prep. Any words of encouragement would be great

Hello folks part of this bowl and never responded to any post feel like providing some hope to whoever is suffering I suffered with two major depression episodes went to close to death but today I have 3 homes and good wealth not to brag this is to provide hope life is worth but I understand how it feels like when you are depressed however sadly my sons both have that illness which I thought I Conquered this is not a medical advise and I’m not a doctor but gained knowledge hope to help

I’ve suffered from workaholism for a long time. Thanks to a lot of great self help books and therapy, I’m no longer putting work on a pedestal and I’m spending a lot more time on self care and my marriage. But, unfortunately, I am now getting withdrawals, because my body is used to the daily adrenaline of throwing myself into work. It’s this terrible feeling of like anguish/unease in my gut, but I don’t have anything I’m worried about- it’s like my body wants to find something to worry about.

Hi fish friends - I’ve been on and off lexapro for five years - my current prescription looks like it’ll end next month and the doctor I got I from didn’t add any new refills. I didn’t love him or the practice and want to find a new doctor close to home (rather than close to work, with WFH still going strong)

Do I schedule another appt with the first guy to keep my pills going? Or let it lapse and get reevaluated by a new doctor?

I am so deeply unhappy and anxious about my job. I switched firms within the last year and it’s somehow worse here. I want to change careers and I’m looking for a therapist asap but in the meantime, I can’t stop emotionally dumping on my boyfriend, best friend and parents (who I’m very close with). I will call them and burst into tears and just generally spiral. I know it’s taking a toll on my relationships. Does anyone else have this issue and what can I do to stop?