How do I breakup with my therapist? I’ve yet to find a new one but I don’t feel like I gain anything from these appointments and I dread going and paying for the sessions

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Just tell them you would like to pause on therapy for a bit. Email them now. Im like you said, it’s your time and money. They won’t be offended

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They shouldn’t be offended. The goal is to help guide you to a better place via your sessions. Giving feedback on what you believe the barrier is can be helpful for your therapist; as well as they can possibly assist you with finding someone of a better fit through referrals and/or resources.

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Don’t schedule a follow up or schedule and cancel later if you are feeling bad.

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