What’s a good bar where a single lesbian can mingle with other queer ladies?

Single 🐟 joining business school in the fall... is dating within your class/cohort considered bad practice?

I’m 35, and going on a first date. Thinking about bringing her flowers. Yea on No? And what would be the perception?

31/m/oh straight and looking for fun

Hi all, when do y’all think is a good time to have the “what are we”/“are we exclusive” talk? After how many dates?

Casual sexting makes a normal day spicy 🥵 🔥

Any single women like houses?

NYC struggles: 1st paycheck to rent, 2nd to pay off credit cards. Almost none for savings. Maybe it's time to rethink my lifestyle of drinks and debauchery ✌️

Good places to grab a drink solo? Im a 25yo woman.

30/M going to be in NYC during the week next week and it would be great to grab a nice drink with any lady 🐠!

why am i into my coworker who is engaged lol it needs to stop immediately.

I have a date over dim sum in a few days. Any recs or tips for staying compliant? Really want to stay OP.
So far my options are salt and pepper shrimp, steamed ribs, chicken feet, and broccoli.

How many dates do you give someone if you don’t feel a “spark” in the first 1-2 dates but genuinely enjoy their company (I.e. talking and learning about them etc)?

Any female fish want to hang out tonight? ☺️

Male 🐠, if you and a girl had a “situationship” but obviously had feelings for each other and it had to end for one reason or another, how often do you still think about the girl? Would she be on your mind as you try to move on?

What are fun things to do for 2nd date in Chicago?

Good outdoor date ideas?

Went on a short coffee date with a person who was nice, but I just don’t think we’re compatible. What’s a kind text I can send to explain, after they said we should see each other again?

25M banglore .. anyone interested do ping

Any recommendations for nice coffee shops good for a first date?

Any tips or resources to study to prepare for the Amazon writing sample?

My male boss recommended the book “The Confidence Code” which is a self help book for women. It was recommended to all the females that work under him. I feel like that's a little inappropriate?

Are there any good conservative sources out there that you think people haven't heard enough about? I'm not against liberal viewpoints or anything. I just think they seem more vocal than the conservatives and I would like to find a balance

Pretty sure the saga of the slave driven company has come to an end I’m the only HR person at this company. Friday I had full admin rights, and went to check email Saturday; account locked. Payroll/HRIS locked out. PEO service says no pending termination is on my file. Went to the office today to get my things just in case. Located in CA. Was about to report numerous violations too. All because I couldn’t solve 8 months of payroll issues in a day. 🫠 Good riddance, I’m getting a lawyer.

In Accenture offer Letter, I didn't get the pay structure, instead HR told me that it can be planned by employee only on the first day of joining. How does it works? I got level 8 .

What is average salary for Test Lead in Netherlands with 9 years of experience

Which Big 4 is best by work wise.

Is there a definitive guide to cost of living? The obvious cost of living centers (SF, NYC, LA etc.) get covered a lot, but I’m wondering where my city falls. It’s a modest Midwest city with ~100k residents but is a relatively touristy spot. It often feels like a MCOL area but I’m not sure how to adequately judge that, and it would be helpful to know when comparing salaries and the like.

Great tailors in the NYC/NJ area?

The Deloitte folk are all too busy doing Salesforce implementations 😂

190 of us in 5 hours? That’s depressing!

Anyone watch the mayoral debate last night? Reading the recap, it seems like it wasn’t that interesting

Hi fishes,


Need your guidance to choose from below companies. Nagarro, Cvent, Fiserv

I am sure this is a question with an obvious answer, but does anyone else just feel absolutely trapped in a job they hate because of their student loans? I’m three years out of law school and I still have $160K in student debt despite making aggressive payments. I work in a larger firm (not big law per se, but 250+ attorneys and big for the market). I am pretty unhappy with my job the vast majority of the time, but I feel like I have no options. $160k at 6% and 7% interest cannot be ignored.

Bangalore office lo unnara earayna ?

What would be an appropriate gift if I want to show appreciation to my juniors before leaving the firm to go in house? What about for partner/counsel?

Which top consulting firms, if any, will pay for your MBA?

Time to brunch.... ! Chicago is finally reopening

Who's our new joiner?

GroupMe in comments! (Thanks @Amazon): Those who'll be in Chicago next week, figured we could meet up:

Monday 2/24, 8pm Sidetrack, in the corner side bar with the long table, connected to glass bar.

We have a bowl leader? Who pins post?!? Show yourself!

Hi queers, queens and everything in between 💕

Hello 👋 just found out about this community today. Would love to meet some folks in the city!

Anyone around this bowl?

Just found out about this too! How are y’all doing ? Would love to connect.

How’s everyone doing? The lack of sex really put me into a depressed state.

Hi everyone. Just found this group today (new to the app as of yesterday). Just saying hi and I can’t wait for the pandemic to be over!

What’s everyone doing nowadays?

Tops? Message me, I’m free this weekend lawlz

How do you manage to find someone to date 🥹

So who is offering to host the holiday party?

Chicago is opening up - Let'a plan for our first summer outing. Whose interested? Suggestion? Go....!

PSA - Sidetrack is open! 🤔

Haha this is going to sound pretty shallow, but are there any young guys that are on good looking/masculine/dl-ish side looking to chat/snap? 22M here

How did you find your queer affirming therapist? I need to do some soul searching and I need an understanding guide