Is giving a gift to a partner weird/inadvisable? Recently lateraled and a partner (not in my group) was very kind in welcoming me to the office and I felt good rapport in our conversations. I don’t like to “suck up,” but figured it wouldn’t be perceived as such as it’s a partner I would literally never work with. The gift is low value ($15ish) but something I picked up on a trip abroad and thought they might like.

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Give it. Perfect.

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Low value thoughtful gifts are OK but not required (subject to relationship). You should never "gift up" anything of meaningful financial value

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No way

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If you’re worried about optics, a heartfelt thank you note is never a bad call.

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