Is it just me or does it seem as though it’s no one left in Chicago to date? Like how do you even meet quality men these days?

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There was a stat somewhere about 80% of women going after the same top 20% of men. It could’ve been out of being picky or simply having unrealistic standards. Not saying that’s you but I’ve noticed it’s the case with many of my single girl friends.

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It’s always interesting the amount of men who gets offended or defensive when hearing the phrase “quality men”. I see social media has burnt everyone’s mind to thinking “financial” is what women are referring to. Let me educate on the definition of “quality”. (A distinctive attribute or characteristic possessed by someone or something). For me a good quality man is: dependable, ambitious, trustworthy, when he says something he absolutely mean it. High value and high quality are two different things.

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D1 - only place to find that is in La La Land.

You are correct. I was the last single one and just got cuffed. Jkkkkk lol people are out there, it’s just the ratio sucks. 9/10 people don’t match but that’s special 1 is somewhere. Good luck!

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Thank you, I truly appreciate it.

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It’s probably you

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