24yr old female working in NYC (if that ever happens again) who's really just looking for someone to laugh with. The cynic in me is often overtaken by the joy I get from doing small things to (..cont)

Late twenties M here. I like to travel, go on hikes and am pretty easy going. Any f wants to chat and see how it goes?

On the topic of intimacy with partners… I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and the past year his libido has dropped to zero. Mostly due to work stress (he says). Whenever I try to initiate, he always shuts me down and says he’s not in the mood. I even touch him and he gets hard but stops me as soon as I try to unzip him. We went from once a week to maybe once a quarter.

I’ve talked to him about it and he says I should take care of myself. So frustrated. 😭😭

Started talking to this guy through group a group telegram and one day he offered to pay for my lunch as I had helped him out with something. Since then he has been offering to pay for my dinners, salon visits, shopping etc and I have accepted 3-4 times. I am in a steady relationship and my boyfriend doesn’t know about this. The other guy just says he likes paying for my stuff and there’s no agenda. Is this a little weird?

In philly area for next 2 weeks. Interested in meeting F’s for adventure
Im 6’2 33M - send DM if interested

Where do professionals 30+ meet people these days besides dating apps?!

What point do should send the "not into you" text to someone you've just started dating? I try not to disappear without a trace

What's dating like in SF? New to the area.

Moving to Boston from NYC and work in Cambridge. I’ve been recommended Back Bay, South End, and Seaport. Where do you recommend? Where is best for dating life?

Any of Dfw female fishes interested in spending time over drinks/ dinner chat abot life, fun friendly conversation, may we watch a movie together. ? Brown Male 36 .

Ladies, if a man asks you out on a date but you aren’t available that weekend and you don’t offer an alternate date or time, should he ask again the next week…or ever?

Say I had a “friend” who gained 15 Covid lbs but is still on dating apps with old pics. Is that considered catfishing? She’s not overweight, but not fit anymore. Still good looking...she suspects. Is it best to update the pics? Or get on a BBW dating app? Definite fear of rejection at meeting. Thank God I’m asking for a friend because this shits embarrassing to type.

Any F 🐠 want meet up for drinks tonight? 31/m

Any ladies 30 and above wanna talk?

How would you spend Valentine’s Day single? I mean how would you survive all the happy couples and not want to jump off a cliff?

Shooting my shot, anyone up for a chat with a M🐠, lonely night and tipsy. Let’s see where it leads...

Thoughts on casual relationships? How to initiate? Be upfront in the dating app bios or go with the flow.

I feel like when I’m busy with work, I don’t even want to reply to attractive guys. Is this normal?

Any F in Minnesota?

I was trying to figure out what my personality trait was a few days ago. It’s depression, my personality trait aside from work is depression

Hi ZSers,
Anyone looking for a male flatmate or looking for a flat? I have to move in before 18th of July. Any leads would be appreciated.
Thanks in advance!

Curious how much a senior writer can make in Orlando? Interviewing with Disney and I’d love to make it work. Also, any great calculators to compute what my NY salary would be in Orlando and vice versa?

Why is my Starbucks latte $6.5 bucks all of a sudden 😭😭😭

Hi! Anybody knows of federal agencies hiring that are offering fulltime telework/remote?
I currently work for an agency based in DC and my boss is forcing us to come back into the office fulltime after we’ve been remote for nearly two years. Majority of my coworkers have already left for the private sector but I’d like to remain in the public.

When does cognizant roll out offer letters after submitting cdf1 form? Is Diwali delaying the roll out of the offer letter? I submitted cdf1 on 21st October.

KINDLY HELP!! 🙏🏻
Hello Amex Fishes, I have an offer from Amex. If I get a better offer from other companies, Can I re-negotiate here at Amex? ( I have received and accepted the OL, accepted LOI 2 weeks back, and BGV has also started)

Trying to open an account on TreasuryDirect to buy i bonds, and I am required to get an authorized certifying officer to sign a form to complete the process to open an account. Anyone know what that is? I went to my bank and asked, they don’t think they can sign it 🧐

So can we claim the trophy of being the worst of big 4 now? Not to brag, but I think we are kind of in the lead here 🌝

So I feel like I want to keep eating something all day. Even though I'm full and not really hungry. It's the thing of chewing I guess. What to do to combat this?

I'm starting to believe my caffeine addiction is affecting me. After an hour of working today, my hand started shaking!

I am looking for a tool to help with determining how much money I will need monthly when I retire. Any suggestions?

What're people doing these days? I just moved to Reston and am working from home so feel like I'm completely disconnected from what's happening in the city.

Okay not going to lie — doing this rotation remote has been/is tough and I’m only a month in. I can’t keep up with the excel skills of you FDD people and pretty sure the director hates me 😭

28F, Boston, lawyer at big4. Let’s goooooo! DM me.

How is this different from the love is blind bowl?

All my gays make some noise 😌

I dont get it

24 year old male from Chicago. I’m a Minimalist, DJ, Outdoorsy Type, Stoic , Pop Culture Enthusiast, & Career focused. DM if you want to chat.

What would you do
A) Rent a 1000sq ft 2bd apartment that’s ehh for $2000/mo.
B) Rent a dope 2,400 Sq ft townhouse in same neighborhood for $2800/mo.
Rent will be split 2 ways. Current salary is 100k

34M in Philly area seeking woman who loves milksteak (you should know what that means); magnets...just magnets; hates people’s knees (cover your knees up if you’re going to be walking everywhere); likes funny little green ghouls; other interests include writing musicals, the waitress, kitten mittens, spaghetti days, guns, America, playing Nightcrawlers, green man. If interested dm me.

Tired of the superficial swiping apps? Good old fashioned text based personals ads Just like in the olden days. Keep it classy!

Very quiet in this bowl🤔

Married white female / 35 / got that covid 19 (extra pounds😅) seeking a human being in these trying times for taking out trash and doing the chores i don’t feel like. would consider a fake marriage for citizenship purposes assuming you are a practicing lawyer

30/Male has two cats and a very cute doggo. Looking for someone to watch my pet while I can be a degenerate.

A lot of Cougars in this bowl. The question is how sexy and salty are you? Feel free to DM

Mid 40sF, recently separated, seeking intelligent convo. For the love of god, do not be dishonest. I don’t even care if you’re married and lonely. I get that. Looking for same age range.

Any F 🐠 in their 30s in DC interested in connecting?

If you like piña coladas and getting caught in the rain, if you're into yoga and you have half a brain, if you like making love at midnight in the dunes on the cape; Then I'm the love that you've looked for... write to me and escape

Hello? Is this thing on?? 👉🎤👈

30 year old male daddy hunter. Slide into my DMs if you’ll be my father figure until the end of time.

Any 40F interested in connecting?

28M (but look maybe 24), PA. Introvert, 5'9, eastern European/dark features. Love to talk philosophy but I can also be silly. Somewhat of a homebody but I do enjoy going out and exploring if I'm in company of friends. If I'm alone I'd rather be home and watch a psychological drama/thriller. LF someone who enjoys a balance of going out and lounging at home.

Looking for a man to watch Degrassi and Friday Night Lights with. Ideally Kyle Chandler but willing to consider other applicants. However, I’ll never be satisfied by you. LMK.