Is there any graceful way to delay accepting an offer without totally losing face?

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I am in that situation right now, but thankfully am being represented by a recruiter who is handling it. She said that two weeks to consider a lateral offer is standard. She’s going to tell the firm something like “she is leaning toward accepting the offer, but wants to go through with another interview she had scheduled to make certain that this is the right choice and she can start at the firm whole-heartedly”

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Oof! Good luck

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