Is watching stories breaking no contact?

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You shouldn’t even follow them if you’re/they’re doing no contact.

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Yes. You shouldn't be doing anything that has to do with them: don't read old texts, don't look at pics, don't do anything that makes you think of them.

Idk but I know I’d feel better not looking at that stuff

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