As much as I know I need to go through this. Today - I just felt so lonely. I was clingy and needy to strangers and just want to make some sort of physical connection with a human.

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It’s totally normal and OK to have that need. We all want that connection and to be seen. I told every stranger I had been dumped, it was cathartic!

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It’s okay. At this time do what will help you through tomorrow

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Completely normal. Here for you if you need someone to talk to.

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So understandable. Try to think of it this way: this too will pass and a new chapter will be written. Just this time, you write it your way.

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