I’ve been single 6 months after being with someone for 5 years. Now 32 and I’m trying to find my wife. I’ve only ever gotten with women who wanted me first so they made it incredibly obvious and easy to get with them. But I haven’t really developed the skill of approaching women and flirting with them. Dumb question but how do I learn this? I’m ashamed to admit I have no game

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Just be nice and genuine, playing the game is not worth it in the long run. If you think they are pretty strike up a conversation compliment them on something that stands out.. easiest is complimenting them on their hair or smile. Compliments on their personality after getting to know them. Just don’t over do it though. When you are genuine and authentic people tend to grasp more towards you.

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Are you single because you would not commit? 5 years is a long time not to be married or at least engaged.

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Confidence, humor and humility—gotta have 2 out of 3. “Don’t ask, don’t get.” Just like anything else in life…

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Focus on yourself king 👑

It depends on if you’re meeting them during the day or at night. Daytime is more about curiosity, shared experiences, with a dash of aura. Nighttime is all about your look, physicality, and wit/charm. Ability to banter helps with both. Oh and it’s a numbers game, just like sales. So the most important thing is to not let rejection get to you. Also make sure you’re maxing out weight lifting. Huge for look, health, and testosterone levels

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