It’s really sad that everyone in the consulting industry just cares about money to the point they are single with no kids at age 40

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What’s wrong with single with no kids at age 40? Don’t subject other people to your own belief of what happiness looks like😑

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I was single until I was nearly 50 and am far far from a workaholic. There are other interests out there beyond changing sh_tty diapers!

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Everyone?? LOL. I know so many who are well settled and have children and they are in their 30s. I am 31 married and planning for a baby.

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My thoughts exactly lol.. Not sure if the ‘everyone’ bucket is just meant to make the topic more interesting

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Single, child-free, savings and money to travel and pursue interests. This really does sound like my ideal set up to be honest.

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I feel like corporate America/system promotes this.

Only the MBB people who think they’re actually learning anything and doing useful things

Um some people, but there are also plenty of people who are not in consulting and single with no kids at 40.

Also lots of professionals married with kids at 40. They are actually more likely to have a larger family and be high income now than in the past.

Larger family??? One kid is (sadly) the norm!

The pool of people that only care about money and are single with no kids at the age of 40 extends well beyond Consulting 😂😂 have you ever heard of the people at the Big4 that want to make partner? 😂

I’ve literally haven’t seen anyone say “I want to be partner” after making it to senior. You may have associates as friends I guess.

I'm 38 with an infant. Very common.

Lol EY... 😆 not everyone wants kids and to get married... and guess what? That's okay. You do you and let them do them! Eeeessshhh!

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