I’ve discovered rocking each of my 2 kids to a 6/8 beat has been far more effective at getting them sleepy than any other (standard) time signatures.

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Bach Cantatas for the win. Nothing spells righteous sleep quite like rocking to a solid Reformation chorale. "A Mighty Fortress IS our God, so sleep damn you!"

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I’ll share a secret with you all.... it’s the fathers scent. Not the rocking or driving ...

Wen u lay him down take off your tee shirt and leave it with him. Infants operate by scent

Helped me big time

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Also helps you focus on something other than the crying

6/8 has more of a waltz feel with the triplets so I can see why that’s so soothing. 2/4 or 4/4 seems too rigid and clock like without any whimsy

Or a shot of brandy

In extreme situations, I would take my son on a 10 minute drive. The car motion made him sleep. I also found dark room (low light) works well.

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