Even my girl friend of 4 months knows that this isn't sustainable long term!

Is the Bella Vista area a safe place to live and raise kids?

Seriously don't know how to get a boyfriend as an IB analyst, most people who are in a relationship started dating since college. Really don't want to be single when I'm 30•••

I’ve learned recently about some traumatic events that family members of mine have gone through but I had no idea had occurred. Besides my parents divorcing I really have not experienced that many hardships or trauma in my life. Sometimes it makes me worry if I’m due for something bad to happen, if the other shoe was going to drop at some point. I know hardships are a part of life and I feel like I have had far less than normal

Last night I went over to my friends house (she has 2 kids, 2 and 4 yo). She and her husband were asking me about my pregnancy and planning. And were asking what I’ve prepped to date. I’m only 13w2 days so I think it’s way to early for buying stuff, but I did mention we hired a baby nurse for when the baby comes. My friend completely berated me, short of calling me a bad mom already, saying “what is she going to do all day? Don’t you want to bond with your child?”. I’m so upset by this.

SO and I are taking a break after a heated argument. I don’t know if I should reach out, how to know when I should, or if I should wait for them to. Why am I asking you guys? I’m at a loss.

I am generally uncomfortable when I’m around my mother-in-law’s husband.

While he is overall a decent guy, his anger issues, yelling at his wife for the slightest issue, and insulting nature makes me uncomfortable and triggers my own anger due to his blatant disrespect for just about everyone around him.

My mother-in-law says he’s worked on things, but it’s been 10 years of this and I’m not sure I want such behavior around my wife and our kids since we’re trying to conceive soon (cont).

Has anyone found dating having kids challenging?

Hooked up with my ex today. Something about the holidays really tends to bring out my self-destructive tendencies.

My brother-in-law (age 30) told us recently that he is transgender. How can we support him? (‘Him’ as we haven’t discussed pronouns yet). It was a surprise to us!

I am done trying to pretend everything is fine at work. The higher ups on the team kept asking if I’m doing anything fun for the weekend during video calls. I felt the pressure to make something up but I just can’t. I’ve been struggling with depression, loneliness, anxiety with immigration and the fact that I might be out of work soon cuz my visa is expiring. I’m thousands of miles away from my family and I just want everything to stop. But when my manager kept asking in front of everyone am I

My relationship just ended yesterday because he wanted to “focus on myself and figure things out.” My relationship before that ended (~2 years ago) because he wanted to focus on himself. I can’t help but feel like it’s because something is wrong with me. What am I doing wrong?

My sister & I don’t get along because i feel she is extremely rude & prefers outsiders over family. My parents however, despite the fact that she disrespects them too, always say she is our daughter & we have to deal with it so just let her be. My mom thinks she is not in a good financial state so we should help her & I don’t want to given her disgusting behavior. Every time i buy something nice for myself, my mom kind of pushes me to buy for her too, and I don’t want to. Continued..

I've got some friends who work remote jobs, and every day I grow more jealous of them during my one-hour commute.

Seen a few posts on people not having/hating on parents with kids. What is your rationale? I for one am excited to have 3 kids running around in the future! Anyone else?

Anyone raising desi kids in the US? What are are some of your fears?

I get so frustrated and annoyed when people make stupid common sense mistakes and I think it’s starting to affect my relationships. Don’t really know what to do.

So I just moved states. I’m staying with a parent for a while in a pretty large house and my cat keeps hiding for hours on end (I think to snooze). Any thoughts? She’s spent time with me and I walked around with her while she explores. And she’s ventured solo. Seemed she’s warming up well. Except this again. I admit it’s giving me horrible anxiety that she won’t respond at all until I locate her because even I’m learning where things are and want her to be safe. This is the third time 😭

AITA? If my SO of 1 year wants to get a dog, do I get an opinion? We don’t live together

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what is the component called other allowances and reimbursement 1 and 2 ? for what purpose its used ?

Hi fishes,
My LWD is 18th July and I chose vendor pickup for my assets(expected pickup is 10th July).
Is there any limitation or chances of facing issues on Not having laptop with me(for other exit clearances).
Also it would be great if someone can give guidance on exit clearances as I'm worried that I will miss out something.
TIA.

Anyway to slim down legs; just want to smooth out this massive imbalance that the body seems to favor to the downside

I am shocked at how many people are unwilling to wear a mask. Are people really that selfish?

Considering UK has entered recession, will it be a wise decision to switch to UK banks like Natwest? IT role..

I have a question - if you work in Manhattan, NY, will a newly renovated 4bed/2.5bath, kitchen, living room, full finished basement with another living room and two offices, laundry/dryer/dish washer on site and a parking spot, a backyard with a shed, in Queens (not popular parts like Astoria/LIC/flushing, also not dangerous), about 1 hour commute to the city, two subway lines, one express bus line and many local buses, rent be around $2800 be attractive? Or would you rather live in the city?

What’s reasonable rent for a decent 1bdr in Hell’s Kitchen? I want enough room for a wfh desk not in my bedroom

Is Einstein’s genius blown out of proportion in popular media or was his work as revolutionary as it gets praise for?

Technology implementation manager in Big Four looking to transition to the banks. Anyone know of a role that they can refer me to?

Anyone in Montreal?

Which company should I joing pepsico or D.E shaw or Gainsight ?

Hello,
How is work like in advanced analytics department at Novartis?

Thanks in advance

Anyone know of Chicago companies with solid in-house agencies? I’m a copywriter/content strategist with 6+ YOE, mostly in financial services.

What all we get along with laptop for new joiners from citiustech?

I joined an agency about 2 months ago and every single day I get more responsibilities, to the point that I don't even know what my actual job title is. I'm frustrated, to say the least.

What is the average bonus and hike rate?
Team: Model Validation (Credit Risk)

Hi Fishes in the Bowls,
I need referral for Amazon, I am having 4.6 years' of experience in networking and systems.

^when the client puts you on actuals^

The transition of joys from 1st day staff to 3rd year senior 😂

Does anyone know if pwc employees still get a peloton discount?