I’ve noticed the tone of correspondence for my wedding planner becoming more and more short. Mind you I’ve reached out 6 times since March of last year to today. It’s starting to rub me the wrong way.
I’m getting married in 50 days and I’m incredibly nervous that she’s going to have an attitude with me. Should I say something?

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For a month. Should they stop working 20 days before your wedding??

Is this a full planner or are they a day of/month of

Even if it’s a day of coordinator you should be able to communicate with them about topics that are in-scope. I definitely had some questions for my day-of coordinator earlier than a month out and they always responded promptly and with no attitude. So I think it depends on what you’re asking them. They shouldn’t have issues with easy quick one offs.

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