Just discovered 90DF and completed my first season (s6) and then Happily Ever After. Some thoughts:
- Began as anti-Larissa but Colt basically wants to keep her as a hostage sex kitten under threat of calling cops if she doesn’t fall in line
- Jon and Fernanda - could’ve been a legit couple, had high hopes for them
- (Tr)Ashley - thoroughly unlikeable, doing it for social media likes
- Andrei is on the slope to domestic abuse
- Azan and Nicole - LOL that is a sham marriage if I ever saw one

I’m a designer in the planning/landscape architecture dept. of a CE firm. Extremely frustrated that after 4+ years and multiple asks, I’m not getting the in-field construction experience I’ve asked for. I know that my designs could be better if I could see how things are actually built but I get slapped in the face with “I need you in the office designing/drafting” or “there’s no budget to have you go out” and then sends an intern to inspect instead. I’m 5 yrs out of college. Any advice?

I have been struggling with juggling work and caregiving for my elderly parents who are at the point where they need constant help, however they refuse to believe they need to move to assisted living. I am struggling with keeping up with work and trying to have some semblance of a life outside of work and caring for them. I understand that caring for small kids can feel like this, but this is different. There is no moment of joy, it’s all kind of depressing. Looking for some wisdom of others.

Ladies what would you do? We were at a classmates bday party and one of the kids also attending the party (not the classmate). Pushed my daughter twice. She is ~3.5 and younger than most kids playing together who who were more like 4. Is this common? How do you intervene. They were all in the bounce house and this guy was targeting my child no one else. I have taught her to push back but she just does not do it and starts crying when this happens. It has been going on in school too!

Ladies, how.much do you dress up these days for first dates? I'm thinking jeans boots and a comfortable but nice sweater and biker jacket. Or should I go with a skirt?

Hey Fishes ,
I want to switch from QA to Dev. I was placed as a QA in my campus placements. What would be your best advice for me.?
Currently Intern

Anyone selling a used road bike? Nothing fancy…looking to spend ~$100. Just need to get from A—> B.

Anyone else feel like the older they get the less friends they have?

Interviewing with ZS as a SIPAC. Anyone have any experience with the structured and unstructured cases?

Ladies, do y’all enter time for emails? If yes, are y’all billing it to the client or as a non-billable time entry

Has anyone taken classes in valuations and received some kind of credential with just an EA? After a bit of a detour I’m getting my EA this year. I‘ve looked in to a few options, like the CVA, but it looks like I’d have to go to business school or become a CPA. I’m not against either but I don’t feel ready to apply to schools just yet. Wondering if anyone has taken a similarly unconventional route in their careers.

I wish google would hire me and stop teasing with these job posts on LinkedIn 🥲

I can barely fit into my work clothes anymore. I know I’m getting fat but I also can’t motivate myself in quarantine. Those who have tried therapy, has it helped your motivation?

Do you think working full time remote is a good thing?

Whether it’s via email or phone, HOW do you negotiate pay with a job offer?

Worked 40 hours already since Sunday morning. It’s only Tuesday night. I’m thankful for the work. But I’m taking the first bus back to client-side.

Is this a terrible time to be searching for a new job? I've been applying since Thanksgiving and haven't had a single interview. Wondering if it's just the wrong time of year to make a move.

Online/chatroom Colt: Smooth-talking stud, 10/10
Real life Colt: Gamer Nerd living with his mom, 2/10

My weird flex: Colt is actually v handsome (I’m a guy fwiw)

The tell all was very good! Wasn’t it??? What was your favorite scene??

I cant stand Debbie... Is it just me?

Welcome to the 90 Day Fiance Fanatics bowl! Here is our official first thread focusing on the latest episode: The Other Way S2E9 Crossing the Line.

-Were you impressed with Ariela’s Ethiopian hospital tour?
-Should Deavan leave Jihoon and go back to the US?
-Are Armando and Kenneth the cutest couple in 90 Day history?
-Should Melyza forgive Tim for his infidelity?
-Is Brittany being disrespectful by insisting on her American customs?

Do you think Stephanie is a pain killer addict?

Ugh Libby's family is just as toxic as Andrei!

Darcy is engaged?!

Lol how much Yara complains about New Orleans yet walks around with a Staten Island sweatshirt 🤣

The casting director this season needs an Emmy.

Did anyone see those big bucket of tears from Jihoon, and Devan’s response? Devan needs to go back home with her mom and leave Jihoon with his mom.

I think Michael and Natalie have a fake storyline. I don’t get what their issues are other than Michael saying “we have a lot of issues”

Who do you dislike/hate on this show? So hard to choose. I’ll just listen them all lol. Big Ed, Asuelu, Andreiiiiiiiii, Sasha, Leida 😂