Hi all, when do y’all think is a good time to have the “what are we”/“are we exclusive” talk? After how many dates?

Has anyone else quit the apps and starting meeting people IRL? It's so much better imo

32 | F | Dallas looking for some decent friends..weekend restaurants/bar..HH hangouts. Also I’m a lesbian but I am NOT in the dating scene nor mindset. So please don’t be alarm, I’m not THAT lesbian that’ll try to hit on you. I respect boundaries like I would expect the same from the next person. I have way more heterosexual friends if anything.

I had higher expectations for this bowl. You’re in your 30’s/40’s and looking for a hookup? 😒

Advice on possibly dating a coworker?

Hi can anyone suggest good pgs for men near deloitte Hyderabad.

A question for the guys: was this a date?! Ran into a guy I knew in college at a bar, he technically asked me out (“we should get drinks sometime” etc), then paid for my drink. But as we were saying bye, it felt kinda platonic? Like just a hug and “good seeing you.” Or is he not interested? How often do you kiss on a first date?

R u satisfied from your partner(in all terms eg sex,daily life, finance etc)

I m not & am male 🤞

I met a couple girls through a friend and they’re both really smart and fun to be with. I’ve been thinking about getting back in the dating scene but don’t know which one to ask out. They’re both friends so I can’t really try the other if one doesn’t work out. Thoughts?

27M here, any girl in Hyderabad

Any male fishies currently in Michigan/Detroit area in here?

How many of you here think you are way too attractive?

For those who are actively dating, how’s it going?

Do you guys have a height preference? I’m talking to this guy who’s really sweet and I really like him but he just told me he’s way shorter than me(4-5 inches) and I don’t know if I should continue talking or just end it here. I always go for someone taller. I don’t care about physical appearances much but Idk if I can get over the height difference of this magnitude

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I think it's funny that I was told when I got my first big girl job, I'll be a catch and that there so many single men in cooperate. I've been working for a while now and everyone I meet is married. Is there I memo I missed?

What’s a good bar to take myself out on a date this weekend?

Hottest strippers in NYC? go.....

People, I need dating advice. Based in a very conservative European place (just keep in mind). Have been here for more than four years now and didn't manage to have a relationship since then. I guess it's partly the place, partly that I have been struggling with the career / mental well being, but in a good place now. Any advice on what has been a successful dating strategy in your early thirties?

Help! I just saw a girl what do I do???

How do I tell this girl I’ve met ONCE, she’s the piece of me I wish I didn’t need?

Date night ideas? I'm in the Logan area so anything around it is fine. Obviously won't be going to the loop with the chaos going on.

Thanks in advanced!

I put paper due to some personal concerns if I take it back , will I get incremented this year ?

Any Strategy& fish willing to chat about an open healthcare role and possibly give a referral if it's a match? Got laid off last week unfortunately and would appreciate any help!

Hey guys, I wanted to get your opinion on FAAS and whether it really is worth leaving audit to pursue? I’m a little scared it might be a career limiting move but I don’t have too much info on it. I would love to hear your thoughts

Hi everyone,

I am a fresh MSc Electrical/Computer Engineering graduate (26F) with strong skills in machine learning and data science in general. I am currently looking for data scientist opportunities in Canada (Montreal preferably) and would appreciate if anyone can help with that (either through a referral or have me contacted if a position opens up). Thank you in advance.

I will be joining Bosch on Dec 12. And I heard there will be year end vacation in December. Will that vacation be provided for new joiners also?

How to fill form b? Is it montly investments or yearly ? If monthly, do we need to fill and submit every month ?

Partners, what is your advice to folks who are currently on bench on how to best utilize their time and what value add activities (personal/professional) that they can/should do.

People who mail birthday cards with nothing in them... Just stop

140K including OTE in mid market sales.

Moving in about 3 weeks. Thoughts / recommendations on removal firms etc? We have maybe 2 vans of stuff to take 30 blocks on Manhattan.

Any security analysts located in Chicago willing to share their salary? Been with the same company nearly 5 years so not sure if I’m underpaid and also unsure what to ask for if I start looking.

Anyone take the GRC implementation exam?

At what point does Salesforce become like Oracle or MSFT where the size and breadth of the platform leads to excessive technical debt?

I have pretty strong social phobia and am worried about making friends. I'm going to be working for an engineering company so I imagine I don't have to be really up on the latest trends or anything but how can I talk to people without making it sound unnatural?

To all the star junior and mid-level associates,
How did you become a go-to associate?

Hi
I am a BA ( conversion lead) at Oyo with 4.5 years of experience and looking for a job change . Kindly need some leads

What will be a good reliable dating website for Indians males who are 40 plus and separated/ divorce .

Can someone please explain this phenomenon I notice. Idk if it's an internal observation issue or really externally things change.

As a happy career-oriented single man. When I'm just focused on improving my career, thinking about work, just doing my thing. I notice women find me attractive, they're nice to me, want me to talk a little bit, and get annoyed or sad when I'm short with them. So I generally feel attractive.

But when I'm dtf, that attraction immediately dissappears. Is it me?

What do men in early 40’s look for in dating/relationship?

I need serious advice, please! Am I wasting my time messaging a guy I matched with online that lives on the opposite coast? Background: we message each other at least 1-2 times everyday for the last FIVE months but never over a phone call. He actually doesn't even have my number. We message on IG. He's a full-time student and full time employee so busy guy. But am I wasting my time and emotions with this guy??

Been with a girl for few months, really enjoyed moments that we shared together and barely got into any fights. But, somehow somewhat, I don’t see that we share the same vision in our career path. She wants to settle for administration roles while I want work & travel to multiple countries, really hard for her to find those opportunities within her current roles. I like her personality a lot but I feel like really hard to share interesting topics/ my works with her. Any advice please?

12 years and my partner won't do chores. Vent vent vent. I make 80% of our income and pay 80% of expenses. I'm also tidy but hate cleaning. Partner works 20-30 hours/ week no kids and is a slob. 3 months ago made chore list, got them to sign on the list the 50/50 split that it was fair. 3 months later I've been doing my chores they haven't done any. Brought it up today and was accused that the list was unfair they refuse and they dont have time because they must "work to subsidize your expenses"

what age did you get married?

I (33M) got booted from Bumble for "promoting social media". I do not even have social media and I can't stand seeing Instagram or TikTok in a girl's bio - it's an instant turn off - so why would I do it?

Anyone have experience fighting a ban? Bumble was really the only app I liked.

I have a crush on my counsellor at work. She's much older but still really gracious and beautiful. Should I go for it or is this a bad idea?

Did anyone reject someone a million times on the apps, eventually gave them a chance and are now married?

How would you feel if your SO hangs out with someone they've hooked up with for a few times in the past in a group setting?

I’m a 28 year old male, living with gf. I think I’ve got covid - very feverish, cough, hot and cold sweats, pains etc. When I get sick I turn into a massive baby - definition of “man flu”. Is this a massive problem for women (ie a big turn off)? Luckily I only get sick once every 2-3 years, but this feels awful and I’m being a massive sook and I can’t help it lol…

Entering 2-4 years of long distance. Been together for a year. I know she is the one for me, any tips on making it as painless as possible?

8 years together, one married. In our 30’s.

I find my husband physically attractive but am not passionate about him or do not feel “pulled” towards him. Is this normal?

What are some examples of healthy vs. unhealthy doubts in a relationship?

Recently met someone and we have been out a few times. Afterwards we will talk about stuff and he has almost an exact memory of everything I have said (even when he was clearly drunk too). Is it unsettling or endearing for a guy to be like this?