How do you feel when your guy repeatedly calls other women hot in front of you and says he’s allowed to appreciate beautiful things? I understand we will never stop finding others attractive but something about this feels disrespectful and I can’t place my finger on what that is.

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We constantly comment on smokeshows of all genders to each other

This is something you should bring up to your bf. Im sure he will understand.

Definitely talk to your partner how it makes you feel. Ask why he feels like he needs to make those kind of comments in front of you.

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