Lately I’ve been wondering if the real risk isn’t working too hard…it’s waking up one day and realizing I followed the “plan” all the way to retirement but never felt fulfilled. Has anyone actually stepped off that track and chosen something different?

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That implies that there is a "correct" track in life to follow and you must follow it your whole life to be fulfilled. But it doesn't really work that way. We change over time, and our preferences and priorities change with us. I enjoy being a lawyer here and now. Maybe 5-10 years from now, that won't be the case and I'll do something else. But that doesn't mean the first path was wasted time; in fact, I very much enjoyed it. Then I moved on to something else I enjoyed at that moment.

Long story short, don't overthink it. If you like what you do, keep doing it. If you don't, you'll know, and you're free to do something else and keep enjoying life.

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I never imagined how old I’d feel in my late 30’s

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Yep. I feel sick lately think about the Charlie Kirk’s of the world being right about the advice on women focusing on family/becoming a wife/having children over career. This hyperfocus on my career left me in extraordinary debt and still alone at almost 40.

I wish I took more risks for love earlier on. There’s always time to make more money.

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Yea, don’t buy into the scam.

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