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Honestly share as much as you are comfortable with not how much you think we should be comfortable with.
That’s a horrible situation and I’m sorry you had to go through it - nobody should. If you want to mention it on a first date that is okay. If you’d prefer to just say that you are divorced and want to have a deeper conversation once you’ve been on a few dates, that is also okay
I would want to understand some details but would usually be socially aware enough to not ask too many questions on the first date
Agree on bringing it up on date #2. A guy I was most recently seeing told me his last relationship was abusive and he gave me the space to ask questions about it without me overwhelming him.
I think it’s okay to state you are divorced , that’s what I did as a male . The other details I would wait to flow naturally .
Why are you so concerned about this Op ?
I guess because I want people to know that I didn't just wake up one morning and say 'hey I don't love you anymore I'm leaving you' but had a legit reason. And I'm from the South Asian community and some of the guys are just so judgy. I've had a hard time with it.