My manager is leaving soon and she’s probably the best I’ve ever had which makes me worried that the person who comes after her might be terrible. How do you deal with bad or micro managers?

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

Good boundaries is my best advice. You can't stop bad managers from being bad managers. But you can control how much it affects you. And who knows, your next manager might be amazing!

That’s true they could be great! I think it helps that we already have pretty well set rules and boundaries for the department which I think is good.

I think establishing your ability to communicate (and style of communication) as well as your independence upfront are all very important. If they don't initiate a conversation about expectations, I probably would.

Yeah that’s a good plan. Quickly getting them up to speed and showing we can do our work without them being there are good steps.

Setting boundaries is crucial, as is familiarizing yourself with their communication style. If you're able to understand how they work and think, it's easy to get ahead of any of the micromanaging tendencies. With that being said, try to go into this with an open mind. It's hard losing a good manager, but you should give their replacement a fair chance. Here's hoping they end up being just as good as the old one.

Yeah it was a surprise to hear she was leaving but I want to stay hopeful. I think my team and I have a good sense of communication and boundaries so it’ll be about keeping that up.

Have your agent help you get a manager!
There are many managers I won’t work with, and I’m assuming there are some managers out there that don’t wanna work with me so you need to be a bit aware of that.

In today’s world managers basically act as agents your best bet is somebody with very few clients not a manager that has a few big names because if they do have a few big names they’re focus is on those big names

I have had many bad managers and micromanagers in my day. To be honest I usually end up leaving because most of the time it doesn't get better. That is not to say that it can't get better, just that it usually doesn't.

Yeah it might be good to look at what’s out there just to be safe!

Put your pants on and suck it up. But why worry about it? You are automatically assuming that they will be terrible. Things happen to all of us. Learn how to deal with complicated situations.

I don’t think you should have to deal with something that bad, sure things are sometimes tough and that’s fine but what’s the point of willingly putting up with a shit situation? Seems incredibly counter intuitive.

Yes I think for the new manager coming in, have a clear mindset and no expectations as you never know what they would be like!

That’s true!! Good to keep your mind open!

It's a valid concern unfortunately. I've had this happen and eventually had to leave the company and a job I absolutely loved because of it. My only advice would be to do what I didn't do that I now wish I had, and that was to openly discuss my concerns early on, offer suggestions and ask what help them to improve the situation.
I made a ton of excuses for her (because it was very clear she didn't know what she was doing) and so I tried to anticipate her needs but in the end it only hurt me.
Give the new manager a chance initially because coming in and trying to gain respect straight away with a team that's already formed isn't easy, but if after a while you're feeling like something isn't working then do address it.
Also, you may love the new manager too! So try not to worry or give 'hostile' vibes when they arrive.

That sucks! Yeah I think it will be about getting that relationship started immediately and showing that we’re more than capable!

Brush up your resume.

Always a good idea!

Related Posts

Who has bad law April Fool's jokes?

like

Hi guys, 2 days back HR mailed me to inform final verdict was positive and asking few details like PAN. But till now offer letter hasn't been released. Should I give a call today or wait for few more days?

like

Need a quick help
While structuring the HRA if we give max limit for eg., 20k and I have rent agreement of 7500. Will this be a problem or will I just get an exempt of 7500?

like

Hi guys,
Going to my first 49ers game this weekend and was wondering what do you guys recommend for pre game, Tailgate in the parking lot? Or how early could I go have a couple beers in the bars by the gates. Thanks!

like

Which firm would you say has the best Oracle practice?

Hi All,
Anyone from strategy and transformation team?

like

Anyone want to grab a coffee or lunch today? (M26, married)

like

What is everyone’s goal for 2020?

I want to do enough pull ups that I would reach the equivalent height of the stratosphere (60-70k reps)

funny

Anyone know why BMS is hiring like crazy? During an economy like this, and right after an acquisition I'd expect more internal reshuffling than external hiring.

like

I am working with an African fintech startup. The business has been bootstrapped from inception and is at the following stage of growth: Av. 2000 AMU,1000+ merchants are signed up, 38,000 +users registered, 15,000 + transactions recorded, with a current team of 10 persons, 5 of which are in sales. The market value for the business as at 2019 in W. Africa was $130 Billion and it is expected to grow to $205 Billion by 2024. The business plans to capture at least 40% of the market by 2024

like

Hi all! As part of joining formalities, Barclays requires the document showing epfo linked with Aadhar. I have not linked aadhar with epfo. Only pan linked. Is there any alternatives available?
Also I tried aadhar seeding in Umang app, that too didnt work.

like

What is a good gift for a recent vet school grad?

like

I give the clients gold, but they decide instead, they want me to paint it with sh*t.

likefunny

Where does the Desi crowd primarily live in Chicago (just the city not suburbs). I was looking to move to Lincoln Park/lake view but was told it's mostly young college kids. Any recommendations ?

like

I have been finding a number of providers that are in-network (UHC) but the surgery centers are out of network and I was told that I have to use in-network. Has anyone else encountered this problem? I'm not seeing how much use the benefit is when the most expensive part is out of network.

like

What is the salary of a Grade 2 Manager

like

What is fastest way to improve both structured communication and thinking? Any helpful books or drills?
It’s the one consistent feedback I get while casing , “to be more structured” I’m there for math ability , business logic , creativity.

like

Should I take up this job?

Current - Consultant in Deloitte USI
Offer - Senior Consultant in EY India?
Hike offered - 30%

Role - Internal, EMEA Leadership Support

Please help.

like

I have recently joined EY.
@can someone help me how to fill time sheet
And how to connect to EYRC Accenture EY

like

How bad is it to leave an understaffed team right before fall busy for a job in a new city? Part of me doesn’t care at all b/c it’s a business decision, part feels like I’m totally screwing the team.

likehelpful

Additional Posts in Entertainment

Do you think Ellen Degeneres will have a comeback?

like

Let's talk about Stranger Things S5 predictions!!! I think one of the main characters will get killed off. My bet is on Eleven but that may be too obvious. Wbu?

like

Who’s your favorite movie director? Mine’s Wes Anderson!

like

How do you find an agent as an actor and how do you know that they’re reliable/not going to screw you over?

like

I had been working on a huge film for the past two years. I did the script, produced and directed. The company backing me is now defunct and so is my project alongside them. I'm so heartbroken, can anyone share any encouragement?

like

I’m looking for poets interested in teaching poetry 👀 Message me if you’re interested!

Post Photo
likehelpful

How do filmmakers find investors?

like

Photographers, what is your advice for making money selling prints?

like

Anyone in here with a masters degree on the business side of entertainment? What type of salary do you usually negotiate for as a coordinator or manager or director?

like

I find it so intriguing that influencers have come to have a greater impact than celebrities.

like

Every time I upgrade gear, I save the old one “just in case”. I now have a mountain of dusty gear I can’t bring myself to get rid of. Does anyone else have trouble letting go?

likefunny

I’m currently at a studio that has been good to me. They took a chance and allowed me to change career paths. They gave me numerous opportunities that lead me to now, being the head of a department. The big guys at the top has expressed they could see me as the guy to run the company one day but it’s all talk and possibilities right now. I’ll have to wait for now. On the other hand, I have an offer in hand from a much bigger company to be part of their business development. Any advice?

like

Are we seeing another repeat of Ellen’s downfall with James Corden? Seems information about his questionable behavior keeps coming out.

like

How come in TV shows there are different salaries for different actors? And it's even worse when you bring numbers in. Per episode, there have been cases where some people make twice as much as others.

like

Recent grads - what was your major and what kind of work are you doing now? Also what was your starting salary?

like

Atlanta actress looking to network and audition for film, tv, and theatre!

like

Is Hollywood out of creativity nowadays? Every film seems to be similar to a pre-existing one and don't even get me started on all the remakes.

like

I never thought I would like a documentary about sports so much and even less one made by ESPN. I'm talking about "The Last Dance". This series shows you the success story of the superstar Michale Jordan and it's extremely exquisite, I recommend it. Who has seen it?

like

What is the pay range for a coordinator position and should you push for more if it’s a possible stepping stone to your dream career

like

To all the event profs out there, could anyone please advise on what is the base salary of a Senior Event Coordinator in Toronto? Thanks!

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal