Need advice navigating a conflict - I’m an analyst at the 8 month mark applying to part time grad school for Fall 2021 to complete while working. I’ve been working a lot with one manager that I’ve gotten close with. in November I asked for her to write a LOR for me by mid Jan. She said yes. I still do not have the LOR and have been periodically and politely reaching out... but the deadline is next Monday. How do I firmly communicate my concerns of the deadline while remaining polite?

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I'd start by essentially writing the letter for her - about yourself, from her perspective. Then send an email along the lines of, "Hi, thank you again so much for agreeing to write a letter of recommendation for me. The deadline is next Monday. I have attached a letter I wrote from your perspective, so please look over it and add anything." This is more helpful than just a reminder, and writing the letter takes a lot off her plate and ensures that nothing key gets missed. Good luck!

She told me that the letter was written and “95% done” and that it would be submitted asap but that was a week and a half ago. So I’m not sure if I should just send her another letter. Am I just over reacting right now? This has been an outstanding item for three months now

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