Radical Candor means that you personally care and are willing to engage directly.

Use language like, “I know you didn’t wake up this morning aspiring to be an idiot and I don’t want that for you. So here’s three reasons why your decision sucks.”

Make sure your reasons are specific, concrete, and objective.

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If you’re not competent enough to solve real problems in the organization, create a few minor problems that you can solve and look like a hero.

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Only works managing up, tho.

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Boss: I need you to stop challenging me on every decision.

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Never tell your wife to calm down. That won’t go well for you.

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