Recently had our first child. It's really making me think twice about my career path. For those of you with kids, is the job worth it? I feel like I'm losing out on so many memories already.

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No clear answer. I have kids and am still banking. My family and I feel that there are only a handful of years where my wife and I (both with mbas) can maximize our careers. Inlaws/grandparents live with us and take care for my children weekday days. Our view is if we maximize our own careers we create the best opportunity for the family. If your situation allows it I would say it should be worth it.

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The alternative is feeling that you're losing out to lesser able colleagues. No win

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Maybe consider corp dev? Not joking, lifestyle seems better and the pay stays reasonable...

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Is worth if you can make top bucket at least half the years. 2 kids and so far so good!

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