Not having luck finding a relationship or having any guys interested in me for 28 years. Thinking about resorting to plastic surgery to increase my chances of finding somebody

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What kind of plastic surgery? If breasts or nose/face, is the type of guy who that would make a difference for really the kind of guy you want to start a meaningful relationship? If weight-loss surgery, there are better ways.

Also, could PA hours be getting in the way? I'd consider a career change before permanent body modification.

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These comments lol

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Plastic surgery won't make you less pleasant to be around

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Quit thinking your life begins when you find a man. Travel. Have fun. Do what you want to do. Life is too short to think your fun begins when you are in a relationship.

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Plastic surgery won't make you more pleasant to be around

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There are worse things than being alone.

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Like being ugly.

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I want a boob job

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Looks fade. Personality is forever

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a paper bag is cheaper

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I don't know who you are or what you look like, but your face makes you unique and it's who you are. I wouldn't change a thing - be you and own it.

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Op. I've been single for past 27 years too, I'm a dude.

I'm leaving USA in less than 60-90 days. Wanna date? Worst come worst you'll never see me. Lol

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J/k, I'm sure you're fine.

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If it'd boost your confidence enough to get a guy and you can afford it, go for it.

And KPMG1, many women are having kids in their mid-late thirties and even into forties now. Considered high risk at about 37+ I think, but it's not like if you're single at 30 you've got no hope...

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I disagree with most of the comments above. Men are first interested in a woman's looks so yes you should consider plastic surgery if you think it would help. There are many other things like teeth whitening, teeth straightening, flossing and brushing, dieting, dressing more revealing, and changing up your make-up that you may want to try first because these are more affordable and less invasive. If you are a young lady and men aren't interested then clearly YOU need to try something different... or follow everyone else's advice and be happy alone because it's his fault he is not interested.

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You do you OP. But not for a boy! @Director 1 knows what's up. So much life outside of a relationship. Just be authentic and confident. Guys love that and ultimately that's what's sustains a relationship. Not being plastic lol

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I enjoy hearing the advice to "just be authentic and confident." Good luck implementing that advice. Also, why can't you "just" do this, implying there is something wrong with your personality and you aren't doing something that everyone else just does.

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I've wanted a nose job for as long as I can remember. Most people say your face is what really makes you unique but if it will boost your confidence and you're doing it for YOU then I see no problem with it. I just can't get past the horror stories and the nose breaking to get myself to do it.

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OP- let's go to dinner. Not a date, just dinner, I'll introduce you to my straight friends

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Are you asking me? Never. I did not say looks aren't important. However, in my opinion, personality and heart are more important. To each their own.

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