Recently moved to a new city and feel like all the other young adults in my new church here don’t like me very much. What should I do? And do I still attend a church when I have no friends here?

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Some cities are not as friendly as other cities and I think there are two options here.

1. Keep going until they grow on you/you on them.
2. Find another church.

The reason why I put 1. as an option is- I feel the way you feel every time I join something new. But after maybe a month or two of consistently showing up, people start warming up.

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