Saw a lot of international students looking to marry someone for visa/citizenship, and saw their gloating articles online tracking how many people have fallen for them on dating apps, what kind of world are we in 😿

Has anyone had experience travelling to the US from the Schengen area, while on OPT. I understand that students on an F1 visa are allowed to re-enter, but It’s unclear what happens for students on OPT (not in college anymore)

If you had to describe your dating life in one word, what would it be?

Any F in nyc wanna hang out this weekend? 30 M here.

if youve been talking to someone for 3 months and u catch them in a lie by stalking their friend on IG, should you call them out or is that too crazy

Hi! Looking for insight. My fiancée is currently in the US on an F1 Student Visa. We plan on getting married in Dec 2022, before he graduates in May 2023. Is it better to get our marriage certification in the US and have our ceremonies in our home country? Or does it not matter?

Anyone wants to get together for drinks 🍹? 39 M

I'm working in the US under H1B, I got a chance to face an interview for another company. My current company started the PERM application also and results will be out within the next 3 months. Is it okay to transfer my H1B to a new company? Can my H1B transfer be denied? How long will my green card application delay if I move to a new company and start to apply for a green card from scratch?

Any non-US lawyers who have been hired by an Am100 firm without having sat the bar? Looking for an opportunity in the US, if possible DC or NYC, and currently working for Big Law in Europe.

Would like some tips re hiring process + visa from those who have succeeded. Looking for a 1-2 year stay and open for longer term

Online dating apps are a mess 🤢

Hey

Male here,

Anyone up for weekend catchup and drive ...female preferred ;)

Good credit card to open? Thinking Amex gold - anyone have it and recommend? Or any others?

For those who are single: how do you all find dates? I absolutely hate swipe based dating apps (tinder, bumble, etc)…32M straight.

Constantly thinking why I chose US to study and have worked here for several years. Visa is such an issue for long term career move. Might have choose Canada or Australia...

I am a SC in Deloitte US and thinking of moving to Canada. I don't hold a US passport, is there a way i can get a work visa in canada maybe through Deloitte or other big 4? If yes, What type of visa is it and how to apply?

Hi fishes,
How is the wlb in Amex?

Anyone switched from consular processing to change of status to activate their H1B? If yes, could you pls share when and how(i.e. if you had a ppmd looped in) you reached out to the law firm. My worm authorization is set to expire in 6 months and travel to home country is risky..

Folks - What would an Audit senior manager in US migrating to Canada can expect as compensation from a big 4?

Has anyone successfully used FMLA to take leave while dealing with side effects from IVF?

Anyone know what kind of experience or certifications I should be aiming to get if I'm trying to break into a pentest role? I just graduated last year and have about a year of sysadmin experience and am trying to get into it asap. So, I'm already applying/job hunting and probably won't get much replies but. Should I be looking at more security analyst/admin roles first? Going for certs? Getting a masters? Wondering what I can do to improve my chances. TIA

We’re hiring! Looking to fill open spots across our analytics team at an IPG agency. Can be remote for now. DM if you are interested!!

PayPal India PM salary? How many RSU does a PM recieve at PayPal?

When interviewing for a position at Accenture does ACN reach out to HR at your current firm? Do they follow up with the 3 previous supervisors you are asked to provide in your application? What all do they ask each them and what are they looking for?

Best coats/jackets to buy for under $300. Will be in NYC go!

Quitting my job soon and am thinking about becoming a therapist/counsellor for lawyers and other high stress professions. Taking a poll on whether you would be attracted to the idea of a therapist who worked in biglaw and could speak to burnout, perfectionism and other mental health issues we typically face as lawyers. Thanks :)

Anyone went through the Immigration and H1B transfer process recently? How much time does it usually take after acceptance that the Immigration team reaches out?

How hard is it to be a PE investor in software? Can it be challenging to understand the actual product/biz if you’re not from a CS background?

Any in house brand strategists out there?

Suggestions on a town that is resonably close to the Boston Airport and still affordable (under $700k for a single family home), also have a kid so schools are eventually going to be important. Suggestions?? Resonably close to the airport to me is an hour or less of car/commuter ride. I am thinking we may have to travel at some scale over the next year and beyond hence the proximity to Bos Logan is important.

Does someone with a Lufthansa account mind checking for me how many miles I would need for a 1 way business class ticket from HKG to ORD on 7/28?

I would check myself but they require 7,000 miles.

Thank you so much!!!!!

Got an offer as EY FAAS manager 1 for $165k base, and $10k sign on in San Francisco office. Does this sound good? Any suggestions? Thanks.

We actively hire global mobility tax, state and local tax, tax reporting advisory, and audit various sr and higher positions across the US at a top 6 public accounting firm. DM please

My current life situation has really brought my self esteem down and this quarantine makes it even worse. How do you lift yourself up when you feel low? I feel like I really want some validation that I’m attractive from someone but have never ever felt the need for it my whole life

Gift giving help: every year around this time my husband brings up his Jan bday and basically demands I spend a lot of $ on him. I find this stressful. I don’t do big lavish gifts but each year I feel pressure to or he won’t be happy. When I say this he immediately launches into “haven’t I done this for you, bought that for you”. “If you loved me you would”. His entitlement and manipulation make me feel super resentful and removes the fun of celebrating him. FWIW we earn the same. What to do?

I have anxiety problems. Even the things that don’t matter much give me anxiety. Like I stress about keeping my salad waiting when sweetgreen notified me my order was ready for pickup.

Noticing that a lot of women I’ve dated have had physically or emotionally abusive fathers....if I had to guess about 20%?

Is this out of line statistically or am I doing something to attract this? Not complaining btw (except for 1, they’ve all been great and happened to confide this information)

I really dislike most of my boyfriend’s family. We’ve been dating for 5 years and I want to get married to him but I don’t want to have to spend holidays with them or have them be around my future kids. Soon I have to figure out if I want to take the next step or break up and it stresses me out

So I have this friend who refuses to get vaccinated. Whatever, his choice. However, our favorite bar just started requiring proof of vaccination to get in. We just found this out last weekend and it ruined our plans. Should I keep going (to this bar and others like it) without him, or be a “good friend” and only hit up spots he can get into?

Sunday topics ( males only): Anybody thinks of penile derma filler?

Getting over heartbreak and having a full time job is torture lol. My boyfriend and I just broke up after almost a year of being together. It was such a beautiful relationship but ultimately he just didn’t love me. I love him so much. My mind knows that I deserve reciprocal love and I’m worthy, but I feel physically ill. My body hurts, my stomach is in knots, my head hurts. How is it that I have to mend a broken heart but also meet my billable hours lmao

I’m irritated ALL the time and it’s ruining my relationship. What’s wrong with me? lol should I just start smoking weed or get on an anti depressant?

I really miss breeding out one night stands.

Starting a new job on Monday and can’t wait to update my LinkedIn. Love getting comments to wish me well on my new role. Can’t wait for my old co workers to see and react where I’m going 😈

When the pandemic is over, will miss three things - remote work, mask mandates and social distancing!

Teaching your sister how to drive again is so frustrating 🤦🏻‍♀️ I cannot! Funniest part is that she has her drivers license just never drove around! UGH

Is it a red flag if someone says they don’t believe in self help books like Atomic Habits, Attached, etc?

I think most people come on here because they’re lonely. Thoughts?

What’s the best advice you’ve ever received? Life or career wise

Rant: my boyfriend is so annoying with this diet! I GET IT. You want to eat healthy! But when you have your friends at our place every other weekend they order pizza and you devour most of 2 boxes! But when I want pizza or wings or burgers I have to hear a whole spiel. “Can we pick something healthier?” “You can order ___ but can I choose something else on the menu?” “I don’t knowwww” like MY GOD. Then if I order something for me he wants half or bites! Sick of it!!!

My friend’s dad was a firefighter during 9/11 who died very young because of lung cancer. He was one of those who were denied coverage. She was just having a really hard time this week. Her boss knows this and told her last Friday with a straight face that she’s sulking. Some of these VC people man.