So I have this friend who refuses to get vaccinated. Whatever, his choice. However, our favorite bar just started requiring proof of vaccination to get in. We just found this out last weekend and it ruined our plans. Should I keep going (to this bar and others like it) without him, or be a “good friend” and only hit up spots he can get into?

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I’d go without him. His choice not to get it so he deals with the consequences

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It’s almost as if your friend’s choice impacts others…🤯

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Dawg, no way. I have been hearing for months now that a choice about health doesn’t affect anyone but me, don’t make stuff up like this cmon

Why would I stop my life because my friend by choice can’t participate? If I like
The bar I am going.

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Leave them behind. They made their choice.

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Go without him. Life is for the living, bb.

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I'd tell him that in the near future probably all the bars will require that soo

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If he's a good friend, maybe mix it up so that you go some places he can get into, but for other times, he will have to miss out if you go out with others where proof of vax required. At the moment, there are consequences of not being vaxxed, but not worth losing a good friend over and hopefully not a permanent consequence.

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If he were a good friend he would respect community health and get vaccinated. You owe him nothing

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Tell him to get a vaccine card.

Thank you to the person who reported my comment. 10/10.

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Choices have consequences, they can't expect everyone to work around the consequences of their choices. That being said, still loads of things you can do together, so think about what is possible, not about what is not. If others were going and asked you to join, I'd go and that friend then cant join, their choice.

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