So..I went on a date with this dude last week and we hooked up (but very pg13) we made plans to meet next weekend for dinner, and we exchanged a few texts after the date, but haven't heard from him since Friday. Am I being ghosted? Granted he's taken a few days to respond before but I thought after we met up it would be different.

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You’re not the only person he’s seeing...

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You asked if you’re being ghosted.

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There's no reason for anyone to take several days to respond these days. He is likely trying to meet up with other girls and evaluating his options. Remember that if someone wants to respond they will. You deserve better.

Had the same thing happen to me recently. Went out with a girl, had a great time, great body language, hooked up after the date and went our separate ways, next day she says she doesn't want to continue seeing each other. It literally makes no sense

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It actually has sense. She did not feel the same about you and she was brave to tell you this

I’ll reply for him lol. DM me!

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You sure he didn’t get hit by a bus?

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M here but I’m also in your position 😬

I’d say stop trying. I was in the same situation a few days back. The guy never really bothered to talk after 4 dates. He recently texted me saying he miss all the fun. Seems like he was evaluating his options 😂

I’ve been in similar situations. I find that some guys just don’t like texting in between dates and prefer conversations in person. Maybe he’ll message to confirm date plans closer to the weekend?

Yeah maybe. If he doesn't should I text later in the week and ask?

Did he reply you or are you just waiting for him to text you first ?

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