Thoughts about single (no spouse no kids) income 180k TC taking out a 550k mortgage for a 850k house? Will be having my parents live there with me, no substantial additional income except they’ll pay for food. I haven’t contributed to my 401k for the last three years to pay for this downpayment. Please roast me, or give me advice.

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I mean this is pretty much against any traditional guidance and completely neglects your retirement BUT if it is what you want to do and you are fine not focusing on retirement then go for it. I wouldn’t advise it.

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I wouldn’t do this. My TC is around $175k and my mortgage is $305k on a $655k purchase (house now worth around $700k). My mom and MIL live with us and my mom sends me $500/m toward the $2900/m mortgage (PITI). $550k on $180k/yr is not impossible but it’s tight.

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Buying the house is fine but, I’m concerned about your retirement.

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Your parents say retirement is worthless but are counting on you for a place to live. Sounds like you shouldn't listen to your parents for financial advice.

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It’s possible but it’ll be pretty tight for you. What happens if you lose your job? A 5K monthly payment is tough when you have no other support. I don’t think I would do it. You definitely need to get back contributing to your 401K.

Are you able to consider cheaper options?

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I agree, that's a very steep payment for the price of the house. The only good thing about this scenario is that there will be very little competition and OP should be able to choose whatever house they want in their price range.

I wish they would say what area they live in so that we can see what they're in for.
If I had that amount of cash saved up, I would personally move to a lower cost of living area and enjoy a 100K mortgage. That's just me though lol

11/10 financial advisors across the risk spectrum would say this is not advisable. Also your take on retirement is pretty crazy. I mean this in a sincere way, you should work on your financial literacy.

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At 3% interest rates, sure. At 7% interest rates, whew.

That just adds to my point. You can't time the market, so buy the house you love if you're in a situation where you need or want to buy. This could be the lowest rate for the next 10 years for all we know.

85% of those who retired in the US relied on their home equity to do so. Don't feel too bad about the house. You still put your money towards retirement. Just don't panic sell if there is a downturn and refi when rates come down!

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