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I'm insomniac since i was 6 years old and my parents are well aware. I'm married for last 3.5 years and blessed with a 1 YO baby boy.

I take small naps around 6am and my wife (acts childish or whatever you call) starts all the tantrums to make sure I get up which includes singing loudly, using hair dryer near my ears, waking alexa to sing music at volume 10 etc etc.

This makes me Cranky the entire day to lack of basic rest and I blast on everyone. Pls help

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This is abuse. You need to have a serious talk with your wife. If she doesn’t understand or care, seek couples counseling or consider leaving.

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Oh. She sounds like a total c u next Tuesday.

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