I'm going from working at a non IT industry to an IT firm. As an introvert I've faced a lot of difficulty in my career... Now since I'm also shifting to another industry completely, I'm feeling very insecure about my life at work. Please give me tips on how to make friends and be in the good books of the managers.

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Just try to be yourself , try to be positive in general and refrain from talking behind people’s backs even if some one wants to indulge in it … leave the discussion. And share your hobbies . I am sure you’ll make new acquaintances , making friends takes time . So yeah patience helps

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