When a 42-year-old woman has a certain financial strength, is it necessary to find a boyfriend to get married?

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I think it removes the need to find a partner that can help you meet today’s needs financially. You can focus on finding a partnership that helps you grow in different ways or just finding a partner that you enjoying living life with or not if that’s your choice!

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I am currently paying attention to the field of artificial intelligence and have always wanted to find someone in this field to learn from each other.

No... you can be single if you want...whenever you want, at any age! This is 2023. Love how you want.

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You can also decide to fully enjoy your financial strength and freedom and do whatever makes you happy.

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You can definitely skip the boyfriend stage and just meet a man, and in short order (after you’ve assessed the main IMPORTANT categories and go to proper certified and/or spiritual marriage counseling) you can get married

Boyfriend stage is not required

Now if you are asking is it okay to just stay single, yes. You have to follow whatever is destined for your life - whether it is to be single or to be married. You can’t follow what other people are doing - whether it is your single friends or married friends.

I will say though - if you are desiring to be married - don’t let people, your experiences, or what you see happening in these streets discourage you from having that desire to be married. Neither should you allow being financially stable or prosperous discourage you from desiring marriage

I’d say no. Be single if that is what you want.

To each their own.

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