What are we supposed to do with our kids during Winter break when school is closed for TWO WEEKS and we need to hit our billables?

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Soundproof a large room, get some new LEGO sets, and lock the door. Also leave a litter box out for them. And maybe some Capri suns and cheese sticks.

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I use our backup care program and also travel to see family that can entertain my kids while I’m working.

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Oh wow, will have to look into this!

In my area lots of places have mini camps when there are long school breaks. I try to take advantage of those.

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Yeah - we have some but they only take kids 5yo and up!

When my kids were young I would try to work the extra time when the kids were in school so I could average out and hit my yearly billables. Also I would try to schedule my vacations when they were home. Always hard. Ultimately I got a nanny.

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