When discussing relationships and what men and women want, why is it that when we speak about the top 5%, the focus is on looks, wealth, and intellect and not character, spirituality, and mental stability?

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Because those are assumed, and taken for granted. Except spirituality. Not everyone cares about that as much

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Welcome to 2025!

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That’s only on social media. I’m a matchmaker and the top 5% care a lot about character in addition to mutual attraction in real life

It's hard to determine character as a screen but the other factors are very easy to use as filters. You have to spend time with someone to get their character, spirituality, and mental stability since people are so good at hiding their flaws. It would be so great to assess these right away in an ideal world.

Yes! Very few care about the eternal anymore. Temporary, material characteristics reign supreme!

Because the world is a superficial, shallow place. Next.

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