When do you start to worry that you’re just not the kind of person companies want. I know it’s not true but the longer it drags on, the harder it is to shake that thought. I keep telling myself the right thing will click but it’s wearing thin.

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I think that's a very natural thing to feel during a stressful job market. I mean, looking for jobs is always stressful, but this job market is making it exceptionally difficult. To reassure you, I think we all feel that way sometimes. Just keep going.

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When searching for a job, we sometimes can get what they call Imposter Syndrome. You know you have the skills but you sabotage yourself into thinking you don't and you're not good enough. So, you refrain from applying to jobs you know you can do. Fear of a new boss, fear of a new environment, fear of learning something new. That with the fear of being able to pay your bills and put food on the table is very stressful. Keep telling yourself you got this, you have the skills companies want, you can adapt to changes, you can do it!

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Agree with your comment. The imposter syndrome hit hard on a lot of people and the fear stopped us from applying for jobs that we can do…maybe try the approach - fake it till you make it

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It ok to feel that way but this thought is just a thought and should not stop you from trying. Keep trying the right thing will click as your said

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