When my son was born, I wanted desperately to be a stay-at-home mom but financially, it wasn’t possible. Now it’s 20 years later and I’m SO grateful I had to stick with working. It was really hard

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...at times, Not being able to be the class mother, not going on a field trips, missing school events every now and then. Plus having no free time, because in my off time I wanted to be with my kids. So it was just work, and family time. and getting back on emails around 9 PM. At times I see moms at school in the yoga pants going out for coffee after drop off, and I’d be so jealous. But all of that got easier, my career flourished, my paycheck grew.  And today a lot of those stay at home moms I know are floundering, unable to get back into the work force, and bored. So hang in there, working moms. It’s worth it.

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God I needed to hear this. Thank you. My concern is that I’m really only putting 80% (at best) in at work and consequently I’m being passed up for promotions and I worry about my paycheck being stagnant.

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😭😭💛💛

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This is me. I have so many shm friends and I just got back from a week away for conference in Philadelphia. My little girls aged 8 and 12 missed me so much and at times I feel so guilty being the mom who can't attend the field trips .

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Thank you for this post. I really needed this reminder right now

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As someone about to go back to work from maternity leave, thank you for posting this!

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I felt sorry for myself until my son started Kindergarten and all the moms who chose to stay home were jealous of me, claiming all they do is get kids in and out of the car all day. And now 5 years later, they are struggling to get their careers back on track. I’ve come to accept that the PTA can do all kinds of good stuff for my kids and I won’t feel guilty that I can’t partake. There’s still plenty of guilt in general and there’s much too much of ‘if your kid wants to do this activity, you have to pick them up at 4pm’ but making it work.

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Appreciate you posting this reminder. My little guy is less than 6 months old and I spend more time than I care to admit wishing I could win the lotto so I could be at home with him. :)

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Appreciate you posting this as someone on the other side. Helps us just starting out or in the thick of it remember this is only a temporary moment in time.

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I love mommy’ing and I love (like) working. Sometimes it’s hard on either side. Thank you for posting this reminder to stick with it!!

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