I had a depressive relapse this weekend that resulted in someone I love getting physically hurt. Idk what to do other than go back to therapy but I can’t even get through the first hour of work today

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You should put mental and physical health above work and get help immediately. Nothing we do is more important than our health.

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File FMLA and take a mental health break. Treatment is covered by insurance. Life > Work

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Has anyone taken FMLA for mental health? Or FMLA at all? What does it look like?

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I have twice. I you don’t take care of you, eventually your work will fall apart as well. Your well-being is more important than your client.

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Without breaking down and I’m working on multiple accounts right now that no one else can pick up.

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