Curious: anyone dealt with an SO who wanted you to work less, but also wasn’t willing to take a quality of life hit of you exiting to a more chill job?

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Clueless and entitled. Terrible combo

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Yes. My dear husband. I have slowly tried to explain he can make more or I need to work to keep up our qol.

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