I'm so over being sick, sad, lonley, betrayed and married.
God lift these adjectives off of me; I don't want them as my descriptors - I don't want them as a part of my narrative anymore.

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You have the power to change your narrative. What’s stopping you?

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Ahhh I understand. Give yourself some grace, it’s something beyond your power

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