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Welcome to Parents at Work! This is a bowl and community for you to share your experiences as a working parent, particularly during the back-to-school season. Receive and give advice, vent, share, and connect with a diverse community of working professionals in the same boat, with kids! Live professional advice on mental health and personal finance will be available in two text-based Q&A events.
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