6 years sober here. I’m 33 and live in NYC. If anyone is curious about sobriety or wants to hear my story - read on!

How do you know when dependence turns into addiction? Where’s the line?

I need to let it out but I’m so fucking proud of myself and I just realized how lucky I got and it took me until just now to see it. I started in the military and it only took 2 months for me to get out and fall into a bottomless hole of depression. My transition went from: $13 an hour part time, separation with the wife, new job at $18 an hour for physical labor, hit with disability diagnosis, then $20 an hour new office job, reconnecting with wife, having 2nd kid, nearly divorcing (cont.)

Parents went to a friends house today. That friend said they were in contact w someone who got tested positive for covid this past week. 1. What’re chances my parents may have it? 2. How do I tell them to stay in their room at their own house?

China has implemented mandatory anal Covid tests for foreign visitors. This seems extremely woke, since anal tests are more accurate than nasal, and I think we should implement this back home in USA. Like for people who go to the store or gym, just a quick butt test to keep people safe. Thoughts?

One of the worst parental insurance plans. 30% co-pay and that too on such high premium.

I'm doing this high fat and protein breakfast routine. I eat that and then don't have to eat again until dinner

Total newbie to working out: is it fine to start with a routine of 2 days of upper body, 2 days of legs, and 3 days cardio?

I’m trying to get my parents into adopting healthier eating habits but nothing is really sticking. Do you have any recommendations or like books I can give them to teach them what’s actually good to eat vs. falling for good marketing/ fads?

Anyone else bring home a lot of stress/anger after a long week? Negative impact on my home life, any advice?

Ugh, is that time of year again! Does anyone have any advice on how to handle "friends" and family members who spout conspiracy theories to avoid getting the flu shot

Who else has to deal with urinals that splash all over the damn place? Any solutions?

TTC for a while now, and I think my mind/body’s playing tricks on me. I didn’t have my regular period this cycle, more like spotting, and have bouts of nausea but the home kits have been negative. It’s trying to go through this every month.

Anyone successfully take STD or extended long term disability for final IVF procedure? I’d like to take 6 months, Destress before hand then go into extraction. Docs say if this doesn’t work they recommend I move onto other options so I want to give it a fair shot. My clinic will fill out fMLA / medical forms but not sure who ultimately decides the duration. Should I also consider other mental health leave alternatives? Thank you!

I've just started Athletic Greens is anyone else trying this? Did it help your health?

My psychiatrist recommended for me to try Ritalin. I’ve been on Dexedrine for a few months, and I’m not really having negative side effects.

Is she a pill mill, or is it worth fixing something that’s not broken?

529 Plan VERSUS Prepaid

We live in Florida and currently have a Freshman in High School and a 16 month old. We hear from our friends and family with college bound children "I wish we would have done Florida PrePaid." After obviously ignoring this for years, we are finally trying to do it before "it's too late" for both children.

Does anyone have recommendations on which plan to go with for each child? I once did the pros and cons on a whiteboard and it seemed like 529 was better.

I have anxiety problems. Even the things that don’t matter much give me anxiety. Like I stress about keeping my salad waiting when sweetgreen notified me my order was ready for pickup.

Does anyone get weirded out that doctor's offices still use fax machines? It's like - what else are they doing from the 80s/90s?

What is the best and cheapest courier service to send an parcel from us to India. I want to send some medicines and pain killer creams to my mom who lives in country side of up,India. Does custom blocks pain killer creams ?

Was discharged from the military in my first year due to a dislocated shoulder… life sucks sometimes!

Is sap security a good fit? And what to learn to gain knowledge??

Mastercard - lead analyst is what level? What would be the next designation after this?

Is it good for 5.5 years of experience with MBA

Hi all,
I am looking for a functional testing profile with 6.5 years experience and immediate joining,
Please let me know if you have openings in your organisation.
Skill set:
Functional testing
Banking Cards and payment domain
Jira, confluence, Zephyr,rally,Qtest,testflo
Test Lead Experience in managing multiple projects
Audit Artifacts
Project Management
Resource management
Project Forcasting

Willing to learn automation using TOSCA

Preferred Location: Bangalore (WFO and WFH)

A coworker (diff depts) and I realized we live in the same neighborhood after running into each other on the street. We started talking more in the office and he ended one convo with “we should get drinks sometime”. I gave him my number via slack and said to hit me up when he wants to get together. Hadn’t heard from him in a couple weeks then connected him to my friend who works for a company he’s trying to sell to. Then he asked if I’d set him up with my friend :( think I have any chance?

Anyone selling dodger tickets tonight

I cleared my technical round, after that they gave me an assignment, which I also completed.
Now they send me an invite for product manager round. What will be the questions asked in this round?
Stack - Software Test Engineer (Automation and Manual)
Exp: 3.8 Years
This one for startup.

Underrated tech companies to work for? E.g. not FAANG.

Has anyone gotten movers within the city and had them pack your apartment? What was the cost for packing (for a studio or 1 BR)?

GM!
im 10 weeks into my contract as a PO at a large satelline/wireless provider (synonym: plate) and the company has offered to bring me on as an internal employee.

currently i am hourly contractor at a rate of $50/hr + 2k sign on

the salaried offer is for 104k ( $52/hr)/ no bonus

problem here is that i work 48-52hrs/wk & get paid overtime, so taking this offer would actually be a paycut by about $250-300/wk

how / what should i negotiate as a fair compensation package

Solo trip to Puerto Rico. Any recs? Thanks fam.

Looking to hire senior level+ with CPA and Private Wealth experience. Come join our cult...excuse me, team.*

Anyone following and panicking over the infrastructure bill last minute challenges? Feels like DeFi is squarely in the crosshairs!

does anyone know good pgs or 1 RK near Gurgaon gwal pahari Ericsson office?

Hi, i need referal in ibm for java developer. Please comment or ping me if someone can help me.

I have already completed my LWD on friday and mh joining date is on 8th June. gave my PDM in IBM on Thursday. Aa i am an immediate joiner, will IBM send my letter with in 1 week?

Accenture or Deloitte for cyber security strategy? Who’s on top?

I need help, I don’t know where to start. I literally could not imagine social situations without alcohol

I’ve created this bowl to discuss sobriety

Hey I’ll. I’ve decided to take the leap into sobriety. Something that my upbringing and career will make difficult, but at this time it’s my only path forward if I want to keep my family and job. How do you all get through work events being sober?

Hey everyone. Happy to come across this bowl. I got sober in the pandemic so it was a relatively easy transition due to the lack of temptation or pressure to partake in social gatherings. For those of you who have been sober longer and also have an active social life, do you have tips on the transition? Did you seek out new friends or just change the way you hung out with existing ones

Nothing used to make me happier than my end of work cocktail on Friday evening. I’ve been replacing it with soda for the last few months but that’s getting old / isn’t an exciting way to mark the transition to weekend. What do you drink on Friday nights?

Been doing the alcohol experiment, on day 26. Hosted a family for dinner- my kids were awful and my husband was super stressed running the grill. Our guests brought my favorite Rose and it took everything in me not to have some. I still feel it 😞