Hey everyone. Happy to come across this bowl. I got sober in the pandemic so it was a relatively easy transition due to the lack of temptation or pressure to partake in social gatherings. For those of you who have been sober longer and also have an active social life, do you have tips on the transition? Did you seek out new friends or just change the way you hung out with existing ones

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I still keep up with my old friends, just stopped doing the same things. After a while the invites got fewer and further between but tbh, I don’t want to be at a 4 hour “brunch” where the crew drinks the cafe out of Champagne. I now mostly hang out with other sober people. Business trips aren’t all that different. Just instead of itching to her back to the hotel so I can drink alone, I itch to go do something more fun than dinner with drunk people.

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