A tenant gave me a check written out to cash and the memo says “a gift for you, thank you so much.”

I don’t feel comfortable depositing it. What would you do?

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In nyc it’s pretty ‘normal’ to tip the landlord esp around the holidays. I think you’re good

Lol not jokes…when I lived in nyc I probably gave $600 every Christmas to the building - doormen, building mgr, maintenance staff

Let me guess a libertarian who thinks taxation is theft.

Either it’s a rent check and you should cash it or it truly is a gift and you can choose what to do.

If you don’t have a friendship with said person, it likely should be treated as rent either way.

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Is it a reasonable amount to be considered a gift? I first thought you meant that the rent check said it was a gift but reading more discussion, I’m assuming this is not the rent check and is some other amount and is meant as a gift. If you don’t feel comfortable give it back to her and tell her it isn’t necessary. The amount might influence my thoughts here a bit but I would cash it.

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