Am I dumb/naive for feeling guilty about possibly leaving? 😅

I may get a remote role & almost 2x my TC just as my firm is rolling out an RTO plan.

I already felt kinda bad for interviewing b/c the people are great, but now they’re all dreading the day they have to go back in and I may not even be there.

Is this premature survivors guilt or something? 😂

(P.S. No way in hell I’d turn down the offer if I get it)

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Not dumb. Our jobs are a big part of our identities and change is hard. Of course you’ll worry about your colleagues and the company you worked hard for - but the reality is you’ll be replaced. Totally normal to feel that guilt though. Hope you get the new gig - sounds like a great opportunity!

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Wow love this message!!

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Get that 💰

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You prob just have a little fear of change which normal

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What's dumb about making 2x more? Not taking it would be dumb

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Are you me?! Guilt holds me back at times

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It’s the loyalty, it’s the relationships, it’s a lot of factors for sure!

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u feel bad now but ull feel amazing af once u open that bag n smell that chocolate Monay $$$. Follow the bag, ur work is just zombie apocalypse, everyome friendly af but if a leprechaun shows up with an escape route they go bye bye. Put urself first, body slam the guilt and go make breeaaaddjfjfjfjfj

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Nothing bad about feeling guilty, ya got empathy kid. Acting on it by staying would make you dumb tho, go get that bread.

I promise you won’t be the only one who leaves with RTO.

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Id be bummed youre leaving, but staying would make you a sucker.

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That’s facts lol

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