Am I getting old, or is it weird when coworkers (in my observation, typically young female support staff) use heart emojis on Teams messages and such? I know it’s just to say thanks or whatever but it seems odd to me.

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Our jobs suck enough. Let people have their whimsy

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Like as a reaction to your message? Fwiw I’m male and the heart is my standard reaction, it never occurred to me that it could be taken any type of way

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Not weird in IM, a little weird in emails.

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It is likely harmless and they’re likely not hitting on you if it is just in thanking you.

Sorry to clarify, it’s not weird in my book. I do this to my peers as well and no one seems to dislike it or have any feelings towards it.

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Please chill.

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Getting old. I know millennial men in their 30s who do heart reacts on Teams

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Depends on the colleague but I do that too.

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Take it as aggressive pursuit of romantic interest. Act accordingly.

This has worked for me on multiple occasions (1.5 times/100-120 messages)

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I am firmly GenX, in my 50s and use emojis in Teams etc messages regularly as do my colleagues of various ages. I use them in emails too depending on the recipient and I receive emojis too, from clients and counsel. Usually laughing or smiling.

I actually thought it was an older person thing bc millennials switched to lol and younger use different emojis than the originals (like 💀 instead of 😂). 🤷🏻‍♀️

For reference I’m corporate in NYC. 🙃

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Very common. Hearts are the default acknowledgement in many messaging apps so it’s not weird to use it on teams.

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Omg you are totes getting old! 😂😂💀💀💀💀❤️❤️❤️❤️

100% weird but more and more common.

Just realized we use default hearts on fishbowl too

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