Any fun/gay recos for San Diego or La Jolla? Anything from a gay bar to a beautiful sightseeing spot

Does anyone have their boyfriend / girlfriend, that you live with on your health insurance? I am not in a same sex relationship FYI. Want to know if I can get my boyfriend on my plan. HR unclear.

Hi guys,

My current company laid off my complete team (including myself) few days back. I've managed to crack an interview at a MNC but the HR is unwilling to give me more than 10% increment on my current salary since I joined my current company only 6 months back.

Do y'all think I should accept the offer and secure a job first without thinking too much about negotiation? And then maybe try to find better offers?

YoE - 5. 5 years

Tech stack - Mobile App Development using Xamarin/MAUI

Best answer for why xx company? Like why Uber eats or why Grubhub?

Hi Fishes,
What is the average salary of Senior Con 1 in EY GDS?

Interested in learning how to build a tech demo (not basic product demo). Any step by steps you can offer?

Amazon(SDE) in Virginia location or Seattle? Ik it might not matter but pros and cons location wise pls

What’s a good salary range for Audit Staff 2 in Montréal or Toronto?

What are the most industry-related conferences and networking events worth going to?

Can anyone tell me the salary range for a consulting associate at Huron? Strategy and operations. Huron.

England & Wales: How bad does it look to leave your firm on qualification? It seems to be more common nowadays, but feels like there’s still a stigma. (I’m a trainee solicitor qualifying in Sept. Work at a London city firm).

How's your Sunday going?

Hi Dance Teachers! What have been your favorite “get to know you activities” over zoom on the first few days of school?

I am giving an interview where interviewer has asked to prepare some slides explaining what I do and what value I can bring to their firm. Will sharing that decks create some compliance issues as I will mail it through my personal email id to interviewers official Id.

FYI, it won't contain any confidential data.

Halfway through the year and it’s crazy how many companies have laid off employees. Meta, Netflix and now Swvl.

I sometimes wonder what goes on under the skin of those "perfect, well-dressed, good-looking, high-performing, never-stressed" usually male attorneys. I get the impression that many are hiding things.

How do you reduce pessimism in life?

Anyone in Mexico City?

Whenever I was on date with guys, they always invited me to their home 😅😅. I’m quite sensitive about “home” lol. Or when I go to bar/ club, I met some guys they also invited me to their home too. although I told them I was looking for relationship (I need to be loved 🥺🥺). They told me “it is a quiet place we can chat” lmao. I always try to stay away from home when dating for a few months lol. Do you guys have the same problem? What do you normally answer to them?

Deloitte 🌈🐠 - raise your hand if you are going to DU this week!

Gays bottom, how do you clean yourself "down there". This year I started to bottom more. I spent the last 5 years being 99% top, so I don't know how to prepare myself. How much water is too much? And so many other questions...Any other technique?

Who’s going to Puerto Vallarta for holidays and NYE?

Anyone else 🤤 when American Ninja Warrior comes on?

1- If you got the 🐒🦠 vaccine I am happy for you, but remember that most people don’t have access to it right now, so when you post your selfies on Instagram it makes people feel bad; 2- people with husbands/in a relationship, it would be helpful if you could wait to get your vaccines. Some of us are single/dating. I just saw some “hubbies” on social media who posted they got vaccinated and doesn’t seem right to me. Kthxbye.

I hate the world “guncle.” It makes me sick to my stomach. Someone called me one today - I have 8 nephews / nieces. I do not want to be called a guncle. Curious if anyone else dislikes this term?

So met a gay guy through some straight mutual friends and we’ve been hanging out (group settings; I invite him to come hang out). I’m getting a lot of mixed signals from him but also I’m fine if nothing comes out of it. But it’s torture lol. Should I ask him what’s up or keep it chill? Don’t want to make things weird bcuz he’s fun to hang out with but also he’s tall, in shape, good looking, and has his shit together. We’re both pretty inexperienced with guys so I’m at a loss at what to do.

Finally got on the HER app because I’m determined to have a sweet romantic Valentine’s Day this year. Anybody got words of encouragement?

Do you guys think there’s going to be more or less eligible bachelors once we get out of this pandemic? Or is everyone going to be in LTR 😂

I was so excited About this guy u til I found d out he voted for trump. Men suck

Thirsty fish, who’s in NYC this week? :)

Anyone in Bengaluru next week?

Fellow gay fish. Thoughts on a PPO v HDHP (w/ HSA) for health insurance? I’ve always done the PPO with higher premiums because the high deductible scares me, especially with 4+ visits to PCP and lab draws, plus other STI testing. Anyone else have experience or advice on selecting between the two? I did some modeling and it seemed like the HDHP would be better but would love additional advice.

Looking for some advice. As a member of LGBTQ, is it better to work for smaller or larger firms? In terms of Overall equality, culture, support & embracing diversity.

Also specifically at banking/PE/VC funds in NYC. Appreciate your thoughts and experiences.

I want to settle down and have a family, but I think I’m too picky.

Hi. Im a 28 yo girl and am very much bi-curious/questioning. I developed a slight crush on one of my friends who I had met in college and became really close with during the pandemic. She lives in NY and I live in South FL. Over the past 5 months we’ve spoken on the phone for hours almost every night and are constantly texting. We are both single and identify as straight. She has never mentioned her interest in women but I feel like she’s picked up on me being bi-curious. *CONT IN COMMENTS*