Anyone else getting guilt tripped after putting in their 2 weeks notice? My partner keeps talking about how our team was already drowning in work and now the other associates are going to have to take on my cases too. I do feel bad for them, but this opportunity with my new firm was too good to pass up! I'm trying my best to make sure all my cases can be transitioned smoothly, but that's all I can do 🤷‍♀️

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If they were already drowning, they should have been aggressively hiring.

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Yeah that’s not your problem. That’s the partner’s problem. You’re right to not want to screw over your fellow associates, but you do that (like you said) by smoothly transitioning matters to them

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OP, ignore the guilt trip. Finish your work like a pro, turn away any new projects, and let them deal with the mess they created.

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It’s their own fault they didn’t hire more people. Sounds like you made a good decision.

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